Chris Abraham

Deportation in the United States can be modeled as a large-scale game of hide-and-seek shaped less by statute than by executive enforcement.

During periods of low barriers and low oversight—most visibly between 2020 and 2024—the system broadcast clear signals: enforcement was deprioritized, backlogs expanded, and risk appeared low. Migrants responded rationally. Advocacy networks and NGOs amplified the signal. Over time, many actors treated the quiet as permanence.

That was the mistake.

“Olly olly oxen free” was never called. It was inferred.

Executive orders are not law. They are contingent, reversible, and dependent on who holds office. This is why immigration policy is uniquely unstable: one administration builds a Jenga tower of tolerance through memos, guidance, and restraint; the next removes those blocks. DACA can be narrowed or revoked. Priorities can flip overnight. This is not betrayal—it is how executive power functions.

Claims that 20–40 million migrants entered during that period, or that 60 million undocumented residents now exist, may be inflated. But accuracy is secondary to perception. Belief drives behavior. Many people bet their lives on the assumption that “olly olly oxen free” had effectively been declared—and that future administrations would honor it.

That bet was never guaranteed.

When enforcement resumes, the correct description is not moral ambush but risk reactivation. A lapse is not an amendment. A backlog is not legal status. Time elapsed is not ratification. The rules did not disappear because they weren’t enforced.

The moral debate can continue. But descriptively, this outcome is what happens whenever actors mistake tolerance for permanence. If stability is the goal, it requires durable law—not inference, not vibes, and not pretending the seeker put the blindfold on forever.

The deportation debate keeps circling whether Trump promised to remove only “criminals.” That question misses the deeper disagreement. The real divide isn’t compassion versus cruelty—it’s whether unlawful presence itself carries moral weight.

The right generally treats being in the country illegally as the crime. Not because undocumented people are immoral, but because unlawful presence is a condition that doesn’t disappear through good behavior. In that sense, it resembles original sin: not a judgment of character, but a state you exist within. You can be lawful, loving, productive, and kind, and still bear the mark of original sin—being here illegally.

The left rejects that framework entirely. “There are no illegal people,” especially on stolen land. Illegality is viewed as a technicality that dissolves under human need and historical injustice. If there’s a biblical parallel, it isn’t original sin—it’s eating the fruit of knowledge.

Yes, it violates a rule. Yes, it leads to exile. But it also produces agency, self-awareness, and moral autonomy. The fall is painful, but enlightenment is worth the cost.

That’s why the two sides talk past each other. One side sees exile from Eden as the unavoidable consequence of defying a boundary. The other sees exile as proof the boundary itself was unjust, because Eden sat on stolen land.

This framing doesn’t deny the humanity of undocumented immigrants or the suffering caused by enforcement. Catholic theology never pretends exile is painless. It simply insists that compassion doesn’t erase original sin—it responds to it.

Until we admit we’re arguing over which story governs reality—obedience or awakening, order or agency—we’ll keep mistaking theology for policy and policy for cruelty.

I never hear the words tolerance or intolerance anymore. Not really. They seem to have vanished from everyday moral language, replaced instead by labels like racist or anti-racist. That shift feels revealing—not because the newer terms are meaningless, but because they do different work.

Tolerance was a behavioral concept. It described how people managed disagreement: by regulating actions rather than beliefs, and by allowing others to exist, speak, and participate without requiring approval or alignment. It assumed that people could hold uncomfortable, offensive, or unpopular views while remaining non-coercive. In that sense, tolerance functioned as a social discipline grounded in restraint.

Much of today’s moral language operates differently. Labels like racist or anti-racist tend to classify people by moral status rather than specific conduct. Disagreement, insufficient affirmation, or even neutrality can be interpreted not as tolerated difference, but as evidence of moral failure. The space tolerance once occupied—between approval and coercion—keeps shrinking.

This also reflects a deeper anxiety about risk. Tolerance relied on an assumption of latency: that most beliefs remain unacted upon, and that harm should be addressed at the level of behavior. When speech itself is treated as inherently activating, tolerance loses its role. The response shifts from coexistence toward preemption.

This isn’t an argument for indifference or acceptance of injustice. It’s an observation about how the disappearance of tolerance from our vocabulary signals a change in how disagreement is processed. Tolerance didn’t ask people to agree; it asked them not to coerce. Its quiet exit suggests a growing tendency to sort one another into categories of good or evil—rather than trusting ourselves to live with unresolved difference.

A lot of the deportation debate collapses because people conflate three different categories that don’t actually overlap.

First: violent criminals. Murder, rape, assault, trafficking—those are criminal acts. They belong in the criminal justice system. Prison is punishment. Deportation is not. If someone commits violent crimes, the correct response is prosecution and incarceration, not a plane ticket. Removing them without prison just exports the problem and assumes they won’t return—an assumption no one actually believes.

Second: lawful immigrants. Naturalized citizens, green-card holders, visa holders, DACA recipients—these are people here within the legal framework of the nation-state. They are not “illegal,” and they are not meaningfully different from the descendants of Ellis Island immigrants, including my own family from Ireland and Hungary. This category is boring—and that’s the point. Lawful status is lawful status.

Third: immigration violations. Overstayed visas, unlawful entry, status lapses. These are administrative offenses, not violent crimes. Deportation exists for this category alone. It’s the civil remedy for being out of sync with immigration law, just as a revoked license isn’t the same as armed robbery.

The confusion comes when people say, “Trump promised to deport criminals.” Violent criminals shouldn’t be deported as a first resort—they should be jailed. Deportation is not justice; it’s paperwork. Treating prison-worthy crimes as immigration issues diminishes the seriousness of those crimes and muddies the law.

This isn’t ethnic. It isn’t racial. It’s about systems doing their actual jobs. Criminal law punishes crime. Immigration law manages borders. When we mash them together, we get moral panic instead of policy—and everyone ends up angrier and less safe.

In social theory, paternalistic racism describes a pattern where individuals or institutions act to “protect” marginalized groups in ways that unintentionally reduce agency, complexity, or self-determination. Unlike overt prejudice, this framework is often motivated by empathy, moral responsibility, or a desire to prevent harm. The intent is typically sincere.

However, problems arise when protection becomes substitution—speaking for rather than with, assuming vulnerability rather than assessing context, or treating entire populations as if they share the same needs, risks, or limitations. In these cases, advocacy can quietly reproduce hierarchy by positioning the advocate as interpreter, guardian, or moral proxy.

Scholars note that this dynamic can resemble an anthropological stance: cultures and communities are treated as delicate, static, or best preserved rather than as modern, adaptive, internally diverse, and fully capable of navigating tradeoffs. While framed as care, this approach can unintentionally discourage autonomy, experimentation, or integration into broader social systems—out of fear that such engagement will cause disappointment, harm, or loss of identity.

An important aspect of ethical reflection is motivation awareness. When a person’s identity centers on protecting others—especially without being asked—it is worth pausing to ask why. Is the action driven by solidarity, or by unexamined guilt, displacement, or avoidance of one’s own unresolved responsibilities? Most often, the answer is not malicious. But without reflection, even benevolent actions can redirect agency away from those they intend to support.

A constructive approach emphasizes consent, reciprocity, and humility: listening before intervening, recognizing competence alongside vulnerability, and accepting that others may choose paths we would not choose for them. Treating people as full adults—capable of risk, error, adaptation, and modern life—is not abandonment. It is respect.

I don’t believe “should” is a safety system. It’s a story people tell themselves to feel protected in environments that don’t care about intent or righteousness. Victimhood doesn’t erase agency. People make constrained choices under pressure, but those choices still shape risk.

Assuming mercy—from strangers, crowds, activists, or law enforcement—is not a moral stance, it’s a gamble. Opening your belly or your neck to people with power because you believe they should be kind misunderstands how humans behave under stress, resentment, fear, and authority.

Law enforcement is not a refuge. The word enforcement includes force. The escalation ladder is real: command, physical contact, non-lethal force, restraint, lethal force. The Constitution and the law operate retroactively. In the field, reality operates immediately.

Protests—peaceful, mostly peaceful, or riots—are not asymmetrical moral spaces. They are symmetrical behavioral environments with asymmetrical weaponization. Being unarmed, morally correct, or less organized does not guarantee restraint from the other side. Insurgents aren’t treated like schoolchildren because they lack air superiority. History doesn’t work that way.

War is the same. Smaller, weaker, or less advanced forces are not treated more gently because they should be. Ukraine, Gaza, Afghanistan—none of these conflicts operate on entitlement to kindness. They operate on power, perception, and escalation.

The core mistake is confusing legality with safety, righteousness with protection, and “should” with physics. Words are cheap. Risk is real. Survival depends on understanding how environments actually behave—not how we wish they would.

Being vigilant isn’t cruelty. It’s realism.